Comments on: Leadership – Being a Leader and Taking Control http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/ Fri, 04 Dec 2009 03:32:41 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Truth Seeker 2020 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1592 Truth Seeker 2020 Mon, 30 Nov 2009 20:11:07 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1592 Yes of course they can it's their body their right and who is the husband to forbid it? In a marriage I think both couples should discuss birth control and agree on it but if that doesn't happen then the woman can do what she likes with her body. Harriet Yes of course they can it's their body their right and who is the husband to forbid it?

In a marriage I think both couples should discuss birth control and agree on it but if that doesn't happen then the woman can do what she likes with her body.

Harriet

]]> By: Sweet Cinnamon http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1593 Sweet Cinnamon Mon, 30 Nov 2009 19:37:32 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1593 pinoys are just as "macho" as the men of other nationalities. its just that the philippines is a matriarchal society and so women hold the purse strings in the family. pinoys are just as "macho" as the men of other nationalities. its just that the philippines is a matriarchal society and so women hold the purse strings in the family.

]]> By: MEAT PUPPET http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1596 MEAT PUPPET Mon, 30 Nov 2009 12:43:25 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1596 Various factors come into play, with each situation. I don't think there is one recipe for leadership. Each situation has its own variables. I'm sure that a person's conditioning, his life experiences, will have a long term affect. Circumstances such as the role you play in your house growing up, what your role is on a sports team, etc...teach the mind to think in a certain way. Of course, it is possible to change too. Certain situations require certain people to be put in leadership roles. Through playing out those roles, you learn how the basics of how be a leader. The process of learning to be a leader gets woven into ones identity . Basically, how you live nurtures a person into what they are becoming (some people call this "karma"). Various factors come into play, with each situation. I don't think there is one recipe for leadership. Each situation has its own variables.

I'm sure that a person's conditioning, his life experiences, will have a long term affect. Circumstances such as the role you play in your house growing up, what your role is on a sports team, etc…teach the mind to think in a certain way. Of course, it is possible to change too.

Certain situations require certain people to be put in leadership roles. Through playing out those roles, you learn how the basics of how be a leader. The process of learning to be a leader gets woven into ones identity . Basically, how you live nurtures a person into what they are becoming (some people call this "karma").

]]> By: Alex http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1591 Alex Mon, 30 Nov 2009 12:22:32 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1591 This is a difficult situation. I sympathise with you, as I have always had a very strong desire for my husband to be in control, though I only fully acknowledged it in recent years. However, he has always been very bossy anyway, so for us it has worked out quite well. Some men though are just not interested in being in charge, and it does sound to me as though your husband is one such man. he sounds very laid back and relaxed, which is great if that is what you want, but frustrating if you don't. To be honest, I think it would have been better if you had discussed this with him before marriage, and then you would have had a clearer idea of what your mutual expectations were. It is also possible that he feels some reluctance to exercise authority over the children, since he is only their stepfather rather than their father. This is always a difficult situation for a man to be in, and he may be worried that they would resent him if he tried. I would suggest sitting down with him and having a discussion about what you both want. Explain that you would feel happier if he was a bit more active in decision-making etc. However, it may just not be his way. But at least he will know how you feel, and maybe he will be able to voice any disatisfactions he has too, so that you can come to a better understanding. This is a difficult situation. I sympathise with you, as I have always had a very strong desire for my husband to be in control, though I only fully acknowledged it in recent years. However, he has always been very bossy anyway, so for us it has worked out quite well.

Some men though are just not interested in being in charge, and it does sound to me as though your husband is one such man. he sounds very laid back and relaxed, which is great if that is what you want, but frustrating if you don't. To be honest, I think it would have been better if you had discussed this with him before marriage, and then you would have had a clearer idea of what your mutual expectations were.

It is also possible that he feels some reluctance to exercise authority over the children, since he is only their stepfather rather than their father. This is always a difficult situation for a man to be in, and he may be worried that they would resent him if he tried.

I would suggest sitting down with him and having a discussion about what you both want. Explain that you would feel happier if he was a bit more active in decision-making etc. However, it may just not be his way. But at least he will know how you feel, and maybe he will be able to voice any disatisfactions he has too, so that you can come to a better understanding.

]]> By: MISES.ORG http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1597 MISES.ORG Sat, 28 Nov 2009 12:46:02 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1597 We are not dogs and paul is a kook. But you are a moonbat We are not dogs and paul is a kook. But you are a moonbat

]]> By: Earnest T. PhD/THC http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1594 Earnest T. PhD/THC Sat, 28 Nov 2009 03:01:15 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1594 Clinton is inevitably going to be the next President, so the so-called "far left" is hardly hurting the Democrats. Clinton is inevitably going to be the next President, so the so-called "far left" is hardly hurting the Democrats.

]]> By: Chi Guy http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1595 Chi Guy Fri, 27 Nov 2009 21:44:22 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1595 The GOP leadership is RESPONSIBLE for Bush. They CREATED him. He is their PUPPET Government in the USA!! What they will feel is sh**t scared that the Investigators are coming after the whole stinking criminal lot of them!! And they should ALL be charged as International Human Rights abusers before we start taking any revenge for what they did here!!! Because WE are the only people in the world who had the chance to stop him at the ballot box. And we didn't do it!! So the rest of the world has much more right to vengeance than we do...and it may mend some badly damaged fences for us to say so,,,loud and clear!!! The GOP leadership is RESPONSIBLE for Bush. They CREATED him. He is their PUPPET Government in the USA!!

What they will feel is sh**t scared that the Investigators are coming after the whole stinking criminal lot of them!!

And they should ALL be charged as International Human Rights abusers before we start taking any revenge for what they did here!!!

Because WE are the only people in the world who had the chance to stop him at the ballot box.

And we didn't do it!! So the rest of the world has much more right to vengeance than we do…and it may mend some badly damaged fences for us to say so,,,loud and clear!!!

]]> By: SanDiego21 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1590 SanDiego21 Fri, 27 Nov 2009 18:51:11 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1590 Your right he does not have the achievements Peyton has, but lets just look at this at all angles. Compare indi's offensive line to the giants offensive line. Eli is getting that much more pressure with 10+ knock downs a game. Where Peyton has little to non and the one week he does he throws 6 picks. Also you can look at the wide out situation, Peyton has 2 pro bowl wide outs, a top 5 TE in the league, and a pro bowl running back. Eli has, 1 pro-bowl wide out in plexico burress and a whiny attitude TE in Shockey. He does not have a reliable running back or running game to rely on. Not to mention comparing tony dungy probably the best coach in the NFL under belicheck, compared to tom coughlin one of the worst coaches in the league. OR if you prefer just look at Eli's record, hes 6-3 doesn't seem to bad to me. Your right he does not have the achievements Peyton has, but lets just look at this at all angles. Compare indi's offensive line to the giants offensive line. Eli is getting that much more pressure with 10+ knock downs a game. Where Peyton has little to non and the one week he does he throws 6 picks. Also you can look at the wide out situation, Peyton has 2 pro bowl wide outs, a top 5 TE in the league, and a pro bowl running back. Eli has, 1 pro-bowl wide out in plexico burress and a whiny attitude TE in Shockey. He does not have a reliable running back or running game to rely on. Not to mention comparing tony dungy probably the best coach in the NFL under belicheck, compared to tom coughlin one of the worst coaches in the league.

OR if you prefer just look at Eli's record, hes 6-3 doesn't seem to bad to me.

]]> By: Rob Mart... http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1589 Rob Mart... Fri, 27 Nov 2009 17:53:20 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1589 I don't think most voters who wanted Hillary will vote Obama anyway, regardless of what position he chooses for Hillary, if any, even VP. I don't think most voters who wanted Hillary will vote Obama anyway, regardless of what position he chooses for Hillary, if any, even VP.

]]> By: nurseyfay http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/comment-page-1/#comment-1588 nurseyfay Fri, 27 Nov 2009 11:58:36 +0000 http://www.emergingwomenleaders.org/2009/11/leadership-%e2%80%93-being-a-leader-and-taking-control/#comment-1588 Hoop Sisters! I love the holistic program that teaches so many positive skills. The other programs that link corporate leaders with community based programs, women connecting, sharing, and changing lives... so powerful! Hoop Sisters! I love the holistic program that teaches so many positive skills. The other programs that link corporate leaders with community based programs, women connecting, sharing, and changing lives… so powerful!

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